This
was a great week for me at Starke! I have finally figured out how to work with
and manage our behaviorally difficult student. I have written about this
student in previous posts, but he has many behavioral problems due to his rough
past. He only wants to do what he wants to do and when he is asked to do
something else or is corrected (behaviorally and academically) he overreacts by
verbally and physically acting out. He also will get physical with other
children if they do something that provokes him or something that he just does
not like.
The teachers have struggled with managing his behavior and
for many weeks I did not know how to even approach the situation. As I have
gotten more comfortable in the classroom I have begun to step in more to help discipline
students. I have noticed that this student tends to act out when there are big
transitions in the day. These usually are when we get back to the classroom
from breakfast, outside play, lunch, and during rest time. He has a hard time
refocusing to do work or sit still and pay attention to the teachers during
these times. He often will go off into another part of the classroom and wander
or explore areas that the students are not supposed to go into (the teacher’s
desk and around the computers). The teachers have gotten to the point in the
program where they don’t know what to do anymore and are tired of having to
deal with him not listening. I have tried to step in before and failed. He
would not listen to me or would become more aggressive. However, I finally have
figured out how to get through to him. I have to first give him a small consequence
(losing 5 minutes of recess) and then if he still is not doing what he was
asked to do he needs a big consequence (losing all of recess). Usually he still
does not respond well so I tell him he has 1 minute to make his choice (losing
recess or doing his work). He usually takes the full minute but then he will go
do his work and stop disturbing the class. When he listened to me the first
time it was a mini-victory that made my day. I felt like I was one step closer
to being a real teacher.
This summer has taught me so much about myself, being a
leader, and about teaching. I am so excited about student teaching in the fall
now. I feel like I am able to manage a classroom and am ready for the
challenges that teaching will bring. I can’t wait for school to start in just a
few weeks!
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